The Aftermath

Tuesday February 09th 2010, 12:04 am

It sucks to even have to think about money when someone dies, but it’s a reality. In my case, I’m inheriting full responsibility for a shitty, run-down old house that I need to maintain from here on out. You would expect that when a persons whole family dies over the course of 5 years or so, including an accidental death (re: double indemnity) that the beneficiary would be left with some considerable money. I know people who have had just one family member die, and been left with some seriously life altering amounts of cash. Well, it comes as no surprise to me that when the dust clears I will be left with little more than some new bills to pay. The money I’ll be left with from the insurance policies isn’t enough to improve even one room of this fucked up old house. It won’t be enough to clear my old debts and repair my credit, and it sure as shit won’t begin to do anything that involves “a new life”.

Like I said, it’s pretty much what I expected. But it really would have been nice to have just one pleasant surprise in this wretched existence, especially during such a fucked up time.

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Darwin has autism.

Last week, Darwin had a “full team evaluation” at The Children’s Hospital Of Philadelphia. He met with 4 different therapists and doctors who led him through various tests, engaging him in different ways to evaluate his behavior as it relates to the Autism Spectrum. Today, his mother and I met with the team again to discuss their observations, the diagnosis, and the recommended treatment.

The diagnosis is autism. Point blank, no bones about it. Does an atomic bomb do just as much damage if you see it coming? Yes it does.

Something is up with Darwin

Before Darwin, I’d never spent any considerable time around young children. So once he was born, every day proved to be a new experience, which is still the case. Because of that, I didn’t have a great basis for comparison between him and any other “normal” kid. But once he became slightly more mobile and I started to see him in the context of playing with or near other children, I started to notice differences. Subtle differences maybe, but I saw them. I was told that I was being paranoid, and that he was totally fine.

Yesterday

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September 1st

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August 29th

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August 27th

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Wants 2 items.
4:30pm

August 26th

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Machete was pretty damn good. Lots of boobs, and Michelle Rodriguez looked awesome.
11:34pm
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Yo Bobby's Burger Palace is crazy.
9:35pm
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Machete screening in West Philly.
6:48pm
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3:31pm
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The thought that I might never get to have a "normal", meaningful conversation with my son really bums me out.
11:51am
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Still mourning the loss of the old Muxtape? Get familiar with http://8tracks.com/ (via @lendamico)
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August 25th

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Oh shit, I just got a DVD and flyer in the mail autographed by Dangerous Toys!
10:52am
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Autism is seriously bumming me out today.
10:09am

August 24th

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Mother Love Bone - Chloe Dancer / Crown Of Thorns - Live 1989 • http://t.co/AwIYoaB
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I like the Contra album. Whatever!
9:02am

August 23rd

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Awesome. My household income just became $0. No pressure.
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See the Statue of Liberty being built • http://t.co/TNVY6bR
4:28pm
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I hear of an album, google it, and illegally DL it in less than 5 minutes. I love the internet!
1:31pm
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Also, Jason McMaster sounded like a crazy Rob Halford/Kind Diamond when he was in Watchtower.
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August 21st

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August 20th

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