Comments on: Full Disclosure. Well, almost. http://gethurt.com/2008/07/31/full-disclosure-well-almost/ GetHurt.com is a blog about music, art, sex, fatherhood, Philadelphia, and all the things that piss me off every day. Tue, 24 Aug 2010 05:21:56 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Nicole http://gethurt.com/2008/07/31/full-disclosure-well-almost/comment-page-1/#comment-924 Nicole Fri, 01 Aug 2008 17:48:40 +0000 http://gethurt.com/?p=422#comment-924 What is it with everyone living in or around Norwood these days? Anyway, like Janet said, ending a relationship is always difficult, but sometimes you just do what you have to. At least this way Darwin can see two happy parents instead of two miserable ones, even if you no longer all live together. Overall that will be what's best for him. At least at this stage in the game he's not old enough to blame himself or anything like that, so when he's old enough it should be easy to explain why Mommy and Daddy don't live together. And when you are ready for that housewarming party, let me know. So long as I've got access to some wheels that night I'd like to come out. I wish I had some stuff to offer for the new place, but I'm not sure I have any extras, and won't know til I move again in the fall. What is it with everyone living in or around Norwood these days?

Anyway, like Janet said, ending a relationship is always difficult, but sometimes you just do what you have to. At least this way Darwin can see two happy parents instead of two miserable ones, even if you no longer all live together. Overall that will be what’s best for him. At least at this stage in the game he’s not old enough to blame himself or anything like that, so when he’s old enough it should be easy to explain why Mommy and Daddy don’t live together.

And when you are ready for that housewarming party, let me know. So long as I’ve got access to some wheels that night I’d like to come out. I wish I had some stuff to offer for the new place, but I’m not sure I have any extras, and won’t know til I move again in the fall.

]]> By: Janet http://gethurt.com/2008/07/31/full-disclosure-well-almost/comment-page-1/#comment-923 Janet Fri, 01 Aug 2008 13:39:22 +0000 http://gethurt.com/?p=422#comment-923 Ending relationships is always difficult, especially after so many years. In your case, though, you share Darwin and he's the most important thing in both your lives. Because of him, your relationship will never really end - it's just changed. I think you made the right decision, not that it's any of my business, but I was a front row spectator to "staying together for the kids" and it did NOT make for a happy childhood. What are you looking for in terms of stuff for the batcave? We've been cleaning house like nobodies business and we're throwing out a lot of stuff that we just don't need anymore. I got some doubles of things for my wedding shower too, so I might be able to help out. Ending relationships is always difficult, especially after so many years. In your case, though, you share Darwin and he’s the most important thing in both your lives. Because of him, your relationship will never really end – it’s just changed. I think you made the right decision, not that it’s any of my business, but I was a front row spectator to “staying together for the kids” and it did NOT make for a happy childhood.

What are you looking for in terms of stuff for the batcave? We’ve been cleaning house like nobodies business and we’re throwing out a lot of stuff that we just don’t need anymore. I got some doubles of things for my wedding shower too, so I might be able to help out.

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